244. Judging and manipulation aren’t right or wrong they just don’t work

Have you ever found yourself unhappy when you’re giving to a date or partner without strings and without judgment? That seems to be when we’re happiest. When we don’t want something back from someone our action is not based on manipulation but on love. And when we’re not judging someone we’re emotionally and mentally joining them where they are, which is also love.

Judging someone and giving with conditions (strings) isn’t right or wrong it just doesn’t work. There’s no peace or happiness in it. Have you ever seen a judging, manipulative person with a peaceful smile on his face? Have you ever seen someone without a smile and sense of joy when they’re giving just because that’s what naturally flows out of them?

Copyright © 2007 Chuck Custer